The deceased’s family installed a hidden camera to solve the mystery.
A 43-year-old man on USA he began to notice that something was wrong with his mother’s grave, since he often found excrement. So together with his sister they made the decision to place a hidden camera at the scene in order to see what is happening.
The mystery was quickly solved when they saw the footage. The perpetrator was their mother’s ex-husband, with whom she had divorced before 48 years. The man shows up in his car, gets out and urinates over her grave.
The video was posted by the deceased’s 43-year-old son. “This picture breaks my heart. A man from Bergen County, New Jersey leaves feces on my mother’s gravestone almost every morning, with the help of his wife.
We have evidence and have reported it to both the Police and the media. None of my family have had contact with him since 1976 and it’s a wonder how he managed to find my mother’s grave“, he wrote on Facebook Michael Murphy.
His mother died on 2017 at age 66 from cancer, which means her ex-husband may have been desecrating her grave all these years. When her son first found the bag of feces, he thought it might have been accidentally dropped by a dog owner walking in the area. But he noticed that something like this happened systematically.
So he got permission from the police to install a camera next to the grave to track down the perpetrator. When they checked the camera, they saw that the ex-husband went every morning at 6.15 to desecrate his mother’s grave. However, after the videos were released it seems to have stopped.
«I promised my wife and kids that I won’t hurt him, but I’m afraid to face him because it will be hard to control myself if I get that close to him. He did this at my mother’s grave for months maybe years. Every cop I talk to tells me “you’re a better person than me because I would have killed himHowever, the authorities said they could not do anything since there were no threats.